Girl Talk About Money and Financial Freedom
Let’s talk about how to create real wealth in our lives with some Girl Talk About Money and Financial Freedom.
You can also watch the replay of my chat with Alecia Stringer on Facebook here.
I realized the other day that one of the main reasons I left my job was because men were hitting on me and it made me uncomfortable.
Now, you might be thinking, Mey – you are a lady and you should know by now how to handle men who hit on you yes?
Well, I guess my answer to that was why should I have to deal with it?
No amount of money paid to me is enough to have to deal with it ever.
And hence, my love and fixation on Financial Freedom.
I’m sure you understand what I’m talking about whether you are a man or a woman, but for the women out there – you don’t have to stand for it period.
So let’s have some real girl talk shall we and talk about girl to girl.
Question #1 – How Can A Girl Use Her Unique Gifts And Talents to Create Financial Freedom?
As a girl I notice that I have a unique girl way of attracting people, men and women to me.
Being beautiful, sexy, attractive leads to attention which leads to sales, traffic, business.
That’s one of the reasons I got that job working at a bank where I handled customer service with our bank’s wealthiest clients.
I was attractive, funny, personable, organized, responsible and dependable. I was also enjoyable to be with, talk to and work with.
This has the power of making wealth.
If you have any of the issues I had at work, people hitting on you, then you have this attractive nature.
Now, you can harness it by recognizing that you have it, and then maximizing the value you get for it (how much money you receive in pay, commissions, etc).
How do you do that?
Well, you can negotiate raises, transfer to other positions, start businesses.
The point here is to recognize that being a lady, and an attractive one, is valuable in and of itself.
It is worth it for clients, businesses and suitors to pay large amounts of money for it.
I’m only speaking of legal activities that also make you feel good, whole and valuable.
Recognize that you have a gift, talent, and ability that you can justly look for fair compensation.
Question #2 – What does it mean to be Feminine in the World of Money?
I notice that a lot of the books I read and study on investing are written by men, or about men.
I like the books, they are very informative, but they are very analytical and masculine.
One book I read recently called, Den of Thieves, was pretty much all about men.
So what does it mean to be feminine in the world of money?
For me it’s recognizing the entire picture of wealth and money.
Speaking with Alecia this morning on our live facebook broadcast, she spoke about how divorce ruined her financially.
I’ve heard many similar stories from men and women of the devastating effects divorce has on people’s entire lives.
Divorce hurts more than just finances, it hurts the soul.
Nurturing love, keeping a marriage happy and vibrant, that takes time and energy and loving attention.
I’ve noticed certain things that I’m good at that helped me make the decision to quit my job.
The feminine part of me knew that I wanted to be a mother.
I wanted also to spend time being a wife.
I didn’t want to be a worker bee, I wanted to be a homemaker, who makes our home a place where my son and husband are happy to come home to.
I was scared at first when I recognized that urge in myself, because I thought it might limit my potential.
However, I embraced my feminine power, and quit my job worked my business part time from home as well as became a full time homemaker. Amazingly the money and opportunities flowed in.
It came in ways that I expected but also in ways that I didn’t.
The power of love is very strong, and nurturing love creates wealth.
Question #3 – What is Girl Power and How Does It Make Money?
To me girl power is recognizing the feminine and enjoying being a woman.
How can that make you money?
Well, the answer is in the beingness.
If you can be happy, and enjoy yourself as a beautiful and powerful woman, then you are already wealthy now aren’t you?
The money follows naturally in it’s own way.
I still struggle sometimes with the idea that I can just be and feel attractive, and that is enough.
Do you ever feel like you have to do do do…do something, in order to get paid money?
Well, sometimes, falling back and just being enjoyable will attract wealth just the same as going out and doing something.
It seemed very counter intuitive to me for the longest time.
I don’t have to do anything to be wealthy.
I just have to BE wealthy.
In fact, feeling, knowing, being wealthy is the pre-requisite to wealth.
I must first know, and be and feel the abundance and prosperity within me. Then it can and will manifest in my life.
Though logically it seems counterintuitive, I know it to be true.
Do you?
Conclusion
I hope Girl Talk on Money and Financial Freedom helped you in some way.
I’m going to leave you with an invitation.
The last month of my job I created a program that I invite you to look into and see if it’s right for you.
It’s called Finance Freedom Mastermind and is designed to help you become Financially Free as quickly as possible.
If you are in a job that you don’t want to be in, or just want more freedom in your life, then CLICK HERE, read the information and get started.