Do Women Marry For Money?

Do Women Marry For Money?

This is not a trick question…

I’m serious, women, if you are reading this and you are married, did you marry for money?

…and if you’re not married, are you looking for a guy to marry who has money?

Men – are you working to make lots of money so you can afford to marry the woman of your dreams?

…do you think women care about money?

…well, most of us have a lot of feelings about this subject!

AND it’s good to get these feelings out in the open, because we all want money…I mean…we all want happy marriages right?

MONEY OR LOVE

I think I personally had a lot of confusion about this topic when I was younger because I always thought in terms of OR…

…it’s love or money…

…well, if I asked that question all the time, of course I chose money…

…thinking that it meant having no money…

…that was me being simple minded and boy did it take me a while to finally realize that dating guys without money is a real drag!

WHY?

…because you have to pay for everything!

…and as a girl, I just like to be pampered…

…now I’m not going to say all girls are the same, this is my opinion…

MONEY AND LOVE

Finally I got struck by the blows of too many failed relationships and some sense got knocked into me and realized I could have both MONEY and LOVE…

…and now I do…

…AND IT’S SO GREAT!!!

…I’m the first to jump up and say that I married for both money and love!

…because I wanted to have both =)

…and why not?

Men like making lots of money, they enjoy buying what they like and having that power…

…and as a woman a powerful man is sexy…

…and it’s nice to take your lady out on the town…

…it’s nice to have money!

…I’m not saying that I don’t have my own money…

…I’m saying I like my man having money…

don’t you like having money?

Conclusion

So, in answer to the question, do women marry for money? I say YES, and they marry for LOVE and so many other things…

…and it’s a great thing too…

…because money is wonderful to have and to use to grow a beautiful loving relationship…

What do you think? Tell us in the comments!

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…I also like making money blogging!

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What Did You Do With The Money From Your Wedding Reception?

Mey here blogging about the interesting question What Did You Do With The Money From Your Wedding Reception?

…on your wedding day how much money did you get from gifts from your guests?

…what did you do with that money?

…did you buy dishes and appliances?

…did you put it in a joint savings account?

…what if you I told you that we invested that money and now we get paid monthly from that initial investment and I’m going to tell you how to do it too?

How We Made Our Wedding Money Make Us More Money

…Jomel and I got married on August 12, 2012 and we had our big wedding party at the end of October of that year…

…so we gathered up some cash from the party, and it was about $5,000 total…

…I discussed with Jomel and we decided to take that money and invest it for dividend income…

…so we opened a joint brokerage account and then started investing in ARR (click here for more about ARR)

…so right now, our original $5,000 investment is valued at about $2,500, meaning that if we sold all of our stock today we would get that much money (so ARR depreciated in value about 50% in the last 2 years)…

…and our dividends that we’ve earned in a little over 2 years until now have been about $1,000.00…

…currently we are making roughly $30.00/mo from this investment…

…now, we don’t know if the dividends will go up or down…

…however, we are happy that our investment is still making us money and will continue making us money until we are old and gray and pass it on to our estate…

What Would Have Happened If We Had Spent Our Wedding Money Instead?

…let’s say we had spent the money instead?

…over 2 years we could have spent about $200/mo…

…that would have helped pay some bills, just our utilities really =)

…and then what?

…we would have nothing left…

…we wouldn’t have monthly dividends to put in our joint account which have ranged from $30/mo – $60/mo…

…maybe we would have some furniture or stuff if we used it to get something…

…however, I don’t know about you, I would rather have the monthly dividends!

Conclusion

…what you did with your Wedding money is probably what you do with all of the money that comes into your life…

…you’re either investing or spending…

…wouldn’t it better to have our money work for us?

…I’m here to help you have that shift in a Financial Freedom mindset…

…because your freedom matters…

…more money for you means more money towards a harmonious marriage, and a stable family where you actually have the time and money to be there for your kids…

…please let me know in the comments below what you did with your the money from your Wedding Reception, or any other thoughts on your goal of financial freedom!

P.S.

…also, I want to let you know a little bit about me and what I do…

…I’m Mey, a blogger and a mother, wife and I’m committed to your financial freedom…

…I also use my blog to help myself and others achieve financial freedom by making money through blogging…

…have you ever thought of blogging too and making money teaching people something that you love?

…it could be on how to raise 3 boys, or on how to cook Vegan food…

…it could be on nutrition or working out to get muscle definition…

…whatever your passion is, there’s a simple system that I use to blog and make money too!

…if that is something that interests you then I invite you to CLICK HERE, watch the free video and get started =)

 

How I Used The Powerful Money Mastermind to Create My Dream Life

…Mey here on a Sunday evening in beautiful Honolulu Hawaii, went on a 60 mile bike ride this morning, and wanted to settle down this evening and share with you How I Used The Powerful Money Mastermind to Create My Dream Life…

…what is a mastermind?

…it is when at least 2 people join in harmony to support each other in accomplishing a goal…

…like forming a team…

…people get together, share their goals, and then help each other accomplish them…

…so, what is the most powerful mastermind?

…I found out about it and set out to create it in 2011, and succeeded in 2012…

…after I created it my Networth went from red to black, I have a wonderful son named Jordan, I go on dates every week, I eat healthy, I work out everyday…

…I live my dream life…

…so, what is the most powerful mastermind?

…and how can you make it work for you?

…per The Law of Success In Sixteen Lessons by Napoleon Hill
, the most powerful mastermind is that between husband and wife…

…these days, you can say a couple…

…I got married in 2012 and formed the most powerful mastermind that I have ever formed in my life with my husband…

…together we have supported each other into creating the life of our dreams…

…and it’s based on harmonious support…

…we communicate with one another, schedule time to date, to do our business meetings, we enjoy being with one another…

…we help each other, where one is weak the other is strong…

…in this way, we have created the miracle of our son Jordan, the amazing life we live here in paradise, and all of our family adventures…

…behind every powerful man or woman is an equally powerful and supportive spouse…

…marriage done wisely can create wealth beyond your wildest dreams…

…have you created your mastermind?

…tell us what you think in the comments below!

3 Keys To Having An Awesome Marriage

…if you’ve read Napoleon Hill’s books Think and Grow Rich, or The Laws of Success, then you know that the greatest mastermind is that of a husband and wife…

…if you want financial freedom then you better keep that marriage happy, healthy and AWESOME!

…today my husband and I celebrated our 3rd year of marriage and I’m inspired to write about these tips to a having an awesome marriage!

  1. Appreciate Your Spouse

    …I think it’s sometimes easy to forget how wonderful your spouse really is…

    …it’s a miracle that you found each other, fell in love, married and are now living a life together…

    …it took me over 20 years to finally find mine and to get married…

    …so I remember to appreciate him for all that he does and is…

    …I take the time to tell him that I love him everyday, and that I think he is sexy, and why I think he is sexy…

    …I celebrate special occasions with him, like our anniversary, birthdays and other great events…

  2. Love and Take Care of Yourself

    …to truly love someone requires that you truly love yourself…

    …working out, eating healthy, doing what you love, living a life on purpose…

    …loving and taking care of yourself will nurture your love for yourself and your love for others…

    …this is one of the secrets to an awesome relationship that we sometimes forget…

  3. Keep Dating

    …we go on date nights every weekend and have been doing this for a long time now…

    …it’s important for us to do things together as a couple, and not just be parents all the time…

    …it’s a way to stay in tune with each other and have fun together…

    …date at least once a week…

…what do you think?

…what makes a marriage awesome?

…share your thoughts below!

3 Dating Tips That Bring Love and Wealth

…have you ever used money to break up with someone?

…have you wondered when and how to talk about money when dating?

…well, I have and as you read on…

…I will tell you my story and how to date and also have a financially sound relationship with your significant other…

  1. Men Pay For The Date

    …I used to think that being a woman in our modern society it was ok for me to ask men out or even pay for some of our dates…

    …was I wrong!

    …as a lady, once I stopped asking men out and once I started only letting men pay for dates, I found dating a whole lot easier…

    …why?

    …well, according to the book Become Your Own Matchmaker: 8 Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate
    by Patti Stranger, in our society, men are the ones who are expected to pay and that they even like to pay because it makes them feel strong, manly and in control…

    …also, it’s one way to find out if your man has his finances together or not…

    …as a woman, we have to take care of making ourselves attractive and being vulnerable and loving and open…(which also takes money…)

    …so we spend our money on making ourselves the best and most attractive that we can, for us to feel sexy and for the man to want to be around us…

    …once I figured it out, dating got so much better!

    …I would read the book to get all of the details…

    …if you are a man, pay for the lady…she worked hard to look that good and to be the noble woman that she is…

    …if you are a woman, let the man pay for the dates…

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  2. Use Loving Words, Not Money, to End a Relationship

    …I was once dating a man who was extremely poor…

    …I was not happy with his financial situation, as I was the one who had the car and drove us around and had the nicer place where we would stay together…

    …instead of just breaking up with him…

    …I decided to use money to end the relationship…

    …I gave him money to help him with his business, and when he didn’t use the money wisely, I got so angry that I dumped him…

    …it is naive to think that you can change someone…

    …now, deep down in my heart, I knew that he was satisfied and happy with being poor…

    …and that he also enjoyed having me spend money on our relationship…

    …instead of just breaking up and keeping my money, I felt the need to somehow give him something so that I would feel righteous in breaking up!

    …I just saw a movie, The Longest Week, where one of the main characters gives women that he wants to break up with a Volvo…

    …for the same reason, he wants to break up and doesn’t want them to feel back or too hurt so he gives them a volvo!

    …it’s so easy to use money to appease feelings of guilt, hurt or shame…

    …however, it’s better to look at the problem directly, and just know that your relationships are valuable and you deserve to be in the relationship that is right for you…

    …just break up with the person you don’t want to be with…

    …trust your feelings and just move on…

    …everything always works out for the best in the end…

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  3. When Dating Gets Serious – Talk About Money

    …so when is it a good time to talk about money when dating?

    …well, it’s when dating gets serious…meaning, you are falling in love and you only want to be with this person…

    …that’s when you start talking about your true feelings and see if they feel the same…

    …and you also talk about your money situation…

    …if you owe money, or if you can support someone with your money, whatever it is…

    …discuss it, and find out how you both handle your money…

    …most relationships that end because of money are because there was not honest and authentic communication about it…

    …as long as both of you feel comfortable about handling money, money will support your relationship together…

    …here are some quick tips on what to talk about: savings and retirement for the future, spending habits, any debt, what you both want to spend your money on and what you currently spend your money on…

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…what are your thoughts on financially sound and loving dating?

…please comment and share!