Do Women Marry For Money?

Do Women Marry For Money?

This is not a trick question…

I’m serious, women, if you are reading this and you are married, did you marry for money?

…and if you’re not married, are you looking for a guy to marry who has money?

Men – are you working to make lots of money so you can afford to marry the woman of your dreams?

…do you think women care about money?

…well, most of us have a lot of feelings about this subject!

AND it’s good to get these feelings out in the open, because we all want money…I mean…we all want happy marriages right?

MONEY OR LOVE

I think I personally had a lot of confusion about this topic when I was younger because I always thought in terms of OR…

…it’s love or money…

…well, if I asked that question all the time, of course I chose money…

…thinking that it meant having no money…

…that was me being simple minded and boy did it take me a while to finally realize that dating guys without money is a real drag!

WHY?

…because you have to pay for everything!

…and as a girl, I just like to be pampered…

…now I’m not going to say all girls are the same, this is my opinion…

MONEY AND LOVE

Finally I got struck by the blows of too many failed relationships and some sense got knocked into me and realized I could have both MONEY and LOVE…

…and now I do…

…AND IT’S SO GREAT!!!

…I’m the first to jump up and say that I married for both money and love!

…because I wanted to have both =)

…and why not?

Men like making lots of money, they enjoy buying what they like and having that power…

…and as a woman a powerful man is sexy…

…and it’s nice to take your lady out on the town…

…it’s nice to have money!

…I’m not saying that I don’t have my own money…

…I’m saying I like my man having money…

don’t you like having money?

Conclusion

So, in answer to the question, do women marry for money? I say YES, and they marry for LOVE and so many other things…

…and it’s a great thing too…

…because money is wonderful to have and to use to grow a beautiful loving relationship…

What do you think? Tell us in the comments!

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Dating a Homeless Man – Does Money Matter?

…this is Mey here on a beautiful Sunday evening blogging about Dating a Homeless Man – Does Money Matter?

…the topic is inspired by my roommate, who is dating a homeless man…

…personally, she can date whoever she wants, however, since she is sharing our home with our family, it has now become our issue…

…you see, he’s homeless and his car recently broke down and now he’s staying at our house almost every night, and he is not welcome in our house…

…the reason he is not welcome is because we are at capacity and don’t allow more than one person in the room that we are renting out…

…and we are actually on a lease, and not allowed to rent that room to more than one person…

…this seems to be a pretty big money issue…

…because if he spent money on his own place, he could have her move in with him, or they could find a place together and move out…

…so money is definitely an issue in their relationship…

…because it’s affecting where our roommate can live…

…we will probably have to give her notice to move out because we have 2 people living in the room instead of 1…

…personally, I think any self respecting man is going to make money so that he can support himself and the ones he loves, and if he’s not doing that, I personally would not date him or associate with him…

…what are your thoughts?

…do you think money matters in love?

…how much?

3 Dating Tips That Bring Love and Wealth

…have you ever used money to break up with someone?

…have you wondered when and how to talk about money when dating?

…well, I have and as you read on…

…I will tell you my story and how to date and also have a financially sound relationship with your significant other…

  1. Men Pay For The Date

    …I used to think that being a woman in our modern society it was ok for me to ask men out or even pay for some of our dates…

    …was I wrong!

    …as a lady, once I stopped asking men out and once I started only letting men pay for dates, I found dating a whole lot easier…

    …why?

    …well, according to the book Become Your Own Matchmaker: 8 Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate
    by Patti Stranger, in our society, men are the ones who are expected to pay and that they even like to pay because it makes them feel strong, manly and in control…

    …also, it’s one way to find out if your man has his finances together or not…

    …as a woman, we have to take care of making ourselves attractive and being vulnerable and loving and open…(which also takes money…)

    …so we spend our money on making ourselves the best and most attractive that we can, for us to feel sexy and for the man to want to be around us…

    …once I figured it out, dating got so much better!

    …I would read the book to get all of the details…

    …if you are a man, pay for the lady…she worked hard to look that good and to be the noble woman that she is…

    …if you are a woman, let the man pay for the dates…

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  2. Use Loving Words, Not Money, to End a Relationship

    …I was once dating a man who was extremely poor…

    …I was not happy with his financial situation, as I was the one who had the car and drove us around and had the nicer place where we would stay together…

    …instead of just breaking up with him…

    …I decided to use money to end the relationship…

    …I gave him money to help him with his business, and when he didn’t use the money wisely, I got so angry that I dumped him…

    …it is naive to think that you can change someone…

    …now, deep down in my heart, I knew that he was satisfied and happy with being poor…

    …and that he also enjoyed having me spend money on our relationship…

    …instead of just breaking up and keeping my money, I felt the need to somehow give him something so that I would feel righteous in breaking up!

    …I just saw a movie, The Longest Week, where one of the main characters gives women that he wants to break up with a Volvo…

    …for the same reason, he wants to break up and doesn’t want them to feel back or too hurt so he gives them a volvo!

    …it’s so easy to use money to appease feelings of guilt, hurt or shame…

    …however, it’s better to look at the problem directly, and just know that your relationships are valuable and you deserve to be in the relationship that is right for you…

    …just break up with the person you don’t want to be with…

    …trust your feelings and just move on…

    …everything always works out for the best in the end…

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  3. When Dating Gets Serious – Talk About Money

    …so when is it a good time to talk about money when dating?

    …well, it’s when dating gets serious…meaning, you are falling in love and you only want to be with this person…

    …that’s when you start talking about your true feelings and see if they feel the same…

    …and you also talk about your money situation…

    …if you owe money, or if you can support someone with your money, whatever it is…

    …discuss it, and find out how you both handle your money…

    …most relationships that end because of money are because there was not honest and authentic communication about it…

    …as long as both of you feel comfortable about handling money, money will support your relationship together…

    …here are some quick tips on what to talk about: savings and retirement for the future, spending habits, any debt, what you both want to spend your money on and what you currently spend your money on…

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…what are your thoughts on financially sound and loving dating?

…please comment and share!