3 Dating Tips That Bring Love and Wealth

…have you ever used money to break up with someone?

…have you wondered when and how to talk about money when dating?

…well, I have and as you read on…

…I will tell you my story and how to date and also have a financially sound relationship with your significant other…

  1. Men Pay For The Date

    …I used to think that being a woman in our modern society it was ok for me to ask men out or even pay for some of our dates…

    …was I wrong!

    …as a lady, once I stopped asking men out and once I started only letting men pay for dates, I found dating a whole lot easier…

    …why?

    …well, according to the book Become Your Own Matchmaker: 8 Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate
    by Patti Stranger, in our society, men are the ones who are expected to pay and that they even like to pay because it makes them feel strong, manly and in control…

    …also, it’s one way to find out if your man has his finances together or not…

    …as a woman, we have to take care of making ourselves attractive and being vulnerable and loving and open…(which also takes money…)

    …so we spend our money on making ourselves the best and most attractive that we can, for us to feel sexy and for the man to want to be around us…

    …once I figured it out, dating got so much better!

    …I would read the book to get all of the details…

    …if you are a man, pay for the lady…she worked hard to look that good and to be the noble woman that she is…

    …if you are a woman, let the man pay for the dates…

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  2. Use Loving Words, Not Money, to End a Relationship

    …I was once dating a man who was extremely poor…

    …I was not happy with his financial situation, as I was the one who had the car and drove us around and had the nicer place where we would stay together…

    …instead of just breaking up with him…

    …I decided to use money to end the relationship…

    …I gave him money to help him with his business, and when he didn’t use the money wisely, I got so angry that I dumped him…

    …it is naive to think that you can change someone…

    …now, deep down in my heart, I knew that he was satisfied and happy with being poor…

    …and that he also enjoyed having me spend money on our relationship…

    …instead of just breaking up and keeping my money, I felt the need to somehow give him something so that I would feel righteous in breaking up!

    …I just saw a movie, The Longest Week, where one of the main characters gives women that he wants to break up with a Volvo…

    …for the same reason, he wants to break up and doesn’t want them to feel back or too hurt so he gives them a volvo!

    …it’s so easy to use money to appease feelings of guilt, hurt or shame…

    …however, it’s better to look at the problem directly, and just know that your relationships are valuable and you deserve to be in the relationship that is right for you…

    …just break up with the person you don’t want to be with…

    …trust your feelings and just move on…

    …everything always works out for the best in the end…

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  3. When Dating Gets Serious – Talk About Money

    …so when is it a good time to talk about money when dating?

    …well, it’s when dating gets serious…meaning, you are falling in love and you only want to be with this person…

    …that’s when you start talking about your true feelings and see if they feel the same…

    …and you also talk about your money situation…

    …if you owe money, or if you can support someone with your money, whatever it is…

    …discuss it, and find out how you both handle your money…

    …most relationships that end because of money are because there was not honest and authentic communication about it…

    …as long as both of you feel comfortable about handling money, money will support your relationship together…

    …here are some quick tips on what to talk about: savings and retirement for the future, spending habits, any debt, what you both want to spend your money on and what you currently spend your money on…

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…what are your thoughts on financially sound and loving dating?

…please comment and share!

Lessons I Learned From Gambling In Las Vegas

…have you ever gambled your money?

…did you win?

…did you lose?

…for me, the first time I ever went to Vegas was last week…

…it was also the first time I’ve gambled more than pennies at a friendly poker game…

…I learned some interesting lessons I’d like to share…

 

  1. GAMBLE FOR ENTERTAINMENT

    …the first lesson I learned in Vegas is that gambling is fun and exciting and that there is a value to being able to gamble…

    …I was scared at first, going to the Craps table…

    …however, the players were pretty friendly and it was a lot more fun and also painful (lost my money) than I expected…

    …I really enjoyed it!

  2. GAMBLE WITH A BUDGET

    …gambling was a bit frustrating for me because I lost most of my money…

    …however, I will go back to Vegas again because I stuck to my budget…

    …and my budget was for the express purpose of gambling…

    …you see, gambling is entertainment…

    …like a show…

    …and it has value…

    …so it’s ok to lose…

    …just like it’s ok to win…

    …and if we didn’t ever lose, there would be no casinos right?

    …and that wouldn’t be any fun at all!

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A Life Changing Exercise About Truly Living A Life Of Your Dreams

…if you were financially free right now, do you really think you would be living the life of your dreams?

…an amazing fact, most of us can live the life of our dreams a lot sooner if we just take the time to do one little exercise…

…read on to learn more…

Dream Line

  • …this exercise is from the book 4 Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferriss…

    …it was really simple and probably one of the most powerful exercises that I’ve ever done…

    …basically, what you do is write down the dreams that you want to achieve…

    …for example, when I did this exercise one of the dreams I had was to surf everyday…

    …the next step is to find out how much you would need to get your dream…

    …for me, I realized that it wouldn’t cost me anything to surf everyday, so I just started getting up early in the morning and went surfing before work…

    …when you actually look at your dreams and figure out how much they would actually cost, you start taking your dreams seriously…

    …you begin the process of attaining them instead of just dreaming about them…

    …this is the life-changing nature of this powerful exercise…

    …stand up above the crowd and decide to take charge of your life, and actually WRITE DOWN what your DREAMS ARE and then BUDGET THEM out…

    …most people chase money, or fame, or just give up…instead of attaining dreams that are just in their reach…

    …STOP, do the exercise, and start finally living your life to the fullest NOW…

     

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How Warrior Camp Transformed My Life

Have you ever spent a week that changed your entire life?!?

…I did, and it was at Warrior Camp…

…read on the hear my story…

 

…before Warrior Camp, I always thought about spending more time with my Mom…

…and thought about quitting the job that I didn’t like…

…and thought and thought and thought about a lot of things…

…at Warrior Camp I learned how to take action in my life for the things that really matter NOW…

…I learned from the activities and people there that we only have so much time to live on this earth and we can choose to live well now or die with regret…

…I came back and quit my job one week later, and had the time to spend with my Mom…

…I always make time for the people who are important to me in my life…

…I have one date night a week with my husband…

…I spend quality time with my Mom and my son…

…I know what is most important in my life, and that is my family…

…and Warrior Camp made it clear to me that I choose how I live my life and I can make it a great life right now.

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Three Hacks For Busy Parents Who Are Working Towards Financial Freedom

…as a parent we spend so much time taking care of our kids…

…preparing them to go out…

…preparing them for bed…

…preparing their meals…

…let’s face it, we are busy!

…so how can we become financially free with so little time for ourselves?!?

…read on to find¬†Three Hacks For Busy Parents Who Are Working Towards Financial Freedom…

  1. 100% commitment

    …if you want to be free you need to be 100% committed, meaning you do whatever it takes no matter what…

    …and get your kids and spouse 100% committed as well…

    …don’t worry about how it will happen…

    …all you have to do at this point is know in your heart that you are meant to be FREE!

    …so what are you committing to?

    …saving at least 10% of your income, learning about what to do with that money…CLICK HERE FOR ALL STEPS

  2. Automatic Transfers

    As a busy parent, you don’t have time to move money around every time you get paid…so set it up automatically!

    Either have 10% or greater of your paycheck automatically deducted and deposited to your financial freedom account…

    …or have a transfer of a set amount that is 10% or greater of your income directly to a savings account…we do this weekly…

    …automatic transfers into your financial freedom account are key…

  3. Set Aside One Hour a Week

    …how can you make the time?

    SCHEDULE IT…

    …and get your spouse or another caregiver to take care of the kids during that time…

    …you only need One Hour to start…

    …during that hour you are working on your financial freedom, whether it’s setting up your transfers, researching investments, or budgeting and lowering expenses…

    Set the hour in your schedule, get your kids covered and do what you have to do in that hour…

    …trust me, one hour a week will make a huge difference!

     

…I do these three things and have improved my Net Worth, created a savings account, have passive income monthly and more!
…if you commit to being great, then that is what you will be =)
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Off To Las Vegas – Financial Freedom and Gambling

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I’m off to Las Vegas for the first time…

 

…and I’m going to gamble for the first time in a casino…

 

…can you be financially free and gamble?

 

…yes, as long as you’ve earned the right to gamble…

 

What does that mean?

 

It means that you have a solid base of savings and investments and on top of that you have extra that you can afford to gamble…

 

Not free yet?

 

Budget how much money you can gamble with and afford to lose, and only use that money to gamble…

 

…wish me luck!

How My Mom Has Inspired My Life

Who is the person that influence me the most?

My Mom is definitely on the list, and I thank her for all that she’s done for me…

 

Maybe some people live a very ordinary life…

…and they may not think of following their dreams…

…or standing up to their values…

…they may not like to read, or research new things…

…or always want to go outdoors and meet new people…

My Mom taught me about how to live an inspired life…

…to this day, she is always going for her dreams by writing her science fiction novels…

…it’s amazing to know someone who goes for their dreams and actually achieves them…

…I’m so lucky to be in the presence of my Mom…

…recently she wrote her first novel and is working on her second…

…here’s her first sci fi novel, if you click on the picture, you can buy it on Amazon!!!

…she also finally took her trip to France and England and Spain!

…it’s inspiring…

…I get to live an inspired life and I know that my Mom is one of the people who motivates me…

…I work during the day and also do my internet business…

…always dreaming of bringing huge value to the world through blogging…

…I am growing our passive income and keeping our expenses down on our path to financial freedom…

…I do yoga, swimming, surfing and enjoy the gym with my loving husband Jomel…

…the best of all is that we are growing our family, with our son Jordan…

…life is inspired, beautiful and fun…

…and I’m so glad to be living it with my Mom!

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Lessons I Learned From Money

If you focus on results, you will never change. If you focus on change, you will get results. ~Jack Dixon

Here are some lessons that I’ve learned on my journey to financial freedom…

 

  1. You must save even if you have debt.

    Are you in debt?

    Are you telling yourself that you would save, as soon as you pay off your debt?

    I used to think that way, and it just kept me in perpetual debt. You see, after a while I realized that I seemed to always be in debt. I would pay it off and then get new debt.

    OR I would get close to paying it off and then restructure the debt for a lower payment and a longer term.

    In anycase, the day that I realized that I MUST SAVE WHILE IN DEBT, NO MATTER WHAT, was the day that I began my journey towards financial freedom.

    When I started saving AND paying debt at the same time, my Net Worth started to increase and I finally started having more income…because I was investing my saved money and making dividends.

    I still have debt today, however, I have a lot more money now than I did before I started saving in 2010…

  2. Wait at least 24 hours before making a major purchase.

    Did you really need that business opportunity, or that large screen TV, or that awesome new pool table?

    Most of our spending is a result of impulse spending, created by advertising and sales tactics.

    I am also a sales person, so I know how these techniques work and I also use them myself.

    The key to keeping more money and only spending on quality purchases is to be aware and to curb the impulse spending (this is A LOT harder for most people than they think)

    A good rule of thumb is to wait 24 hours before making a major purchase.

  3. If you lend money, ALWAYS GET COLLATERAL AND PULL CREDIT.

    Can I borrow money for…?

    If you haven’t heard this question yet, you will once you start saving money…your friends and family are going to want a piece of it…and they are probably NOT going to pay you back…

    …I’ve been burned, my husband’s been burned…all by friends who want to borrow money and then they didn’t pay it back…

    …the lesson, no matter who it is, always check credit and always get collateral.

    What is collateral?

    Collateral is anything that is as valuable as the money you are lending out, and that you can keep if they don’t pay you back…

    …as for credit, just have them pull their free credit report from http://www.FreeAnnualCreditReport.com

    If your friends don’t want to do this, then they are basically asking you to give them money…

    …and it’s up to you if you want to give your hard earned money away…

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How T Harv Eker’s Millionaire Mind Intensive Seminar Led Me To an Enlightened Life

Have you ever searched for an answer to a burning question your whole life?

Well, I had…

I always wondered what enlightenment was…

…I first learned about it in high school, when we were studying world history and learned about buddha…

…at the time, I thought I would like to be enlightened…

…seemed like a great way to feel peace of mind and happy all the time…

…however, it didn’t make much sense to me…

…buddha said – desire causes suffering so give up desire and give up suffering…

…does that make sense to you?

My Quest For Money

…Well, the funny thing is that I got my first real glimpse of enlightenment through my mentor T Harv Eker…

…while I was on a quest to make more money…

…and it came through during the Millionaire Mind Intensive seminar I attended in LA in May of 2010…

…I learned about this course by hearing an audio online¬†of how to change our money blueprint…

…changing that blueprint was going to make me rich…

…and the course promised to change my money blueprint in just 3 days…

…it’s not surprising that money was the motivator to get me to take action…

…and I got my best friend to fly to LA with me…

…one of the most powerful motivators of men and women is money…

…that included myself…

…seriously, wouldn’t you go through a 3 day seminar if it promised you would make more money?

…let me tell you what happened next…

Before My Journey To LA and the Millionaire Mind Intensive

…let me give you some background first, and tell you about before I went to the MMI (the Millionaire Mind Intensive)…

…my money situation was not good…

…I had a negative Net Worth…

…and I spent money to inflict revenge, to satisfy my ego, to pump up my self worth…

…and I let go of my control of my own money to my outside environment…

…not only that, I was lost spiritually…

…I was living and did not know why or where I wanted to go…

…all I knew is that what I was doing was not working, and Harv had a way out…

…he had a recipe, and a way to change the root of all my problems…

…which at the time I though was my lack of money…

How My Life Changed After the Millionaire Mind Intensive Seminar

…I learned at the Millionaire Mind intensive that my blueprint creates my thoughts, which then create actions, which lead to my results…

…and that what I create is NEUTRAL of meaning…

…meaning that if I spend all my money and am poor, that is neither good or bad, it just is…

…and if I save money and become rich, that is neither good or bad, it just is…

…and since it is neutral of meaning, we can give it whatever meaning we want…

…and we can create any life that we want…

…so why not create a life of abundance in wealth, health and happiness?

…wouldn’t that be more fun?

…that was my big Ah Ha moment!

…to you reading this you may not think this is a big deal…

…or you may think this is obvious…

…however, this one idea changed my whole life…

…and then things started to change in my life for the better…

…today I have a positive networth that improves on a daily basis…

…in addition, I found and married my soulmate, have a fun and loving 1 year old son and live an extraordinary life of wealth and abundance…

…I have an internet business that I love and a new community of leaders and friends to mentor and grow with…

…and inside, I feel alive, vibrant and happy about knowing what a great life I live…EVERYDAY!

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…This resource library of knowledge is so important to me that I don’t know if I would still be running my business without it….

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